I Talked To My Ex’s First “Wife,” And I Got The Real Story Of The Man I Married
Alrighty, well, I’ve had some time to let the shock of my ex husband’s new life settle in, and I have to say that I’m feeling much better. I mean it wasn’t as if I hadn’t suspected it in the past (I knew he was still with the woman that he had been cheating on me with and often commented to my friends that it would be really strange if my kids had siblings), but it was just the confirmation of it all, the announcement that my kids do in fact have siblings (GASP), and the realization of depth of his manipulation that knocked the wind out of my lungs.
I know what I went through, and I know what my children went through, and I know what we have continued to go through day after day for years on end because of his actions. And I can’t lie, I don’t like this new wife of his. I know that I don’t know her, but I’m sorry, I already don’t like her. I can’t help but feel angry at the role she has played in my life (she was dating a married man, and I have a hard time believing that she didn’t know that), but woman to woman, mother to mother, I also can’t help but fear for her safety and the future of her children.
But not as floored as I was when her story began to pour out and we could see where it intermingled with mine. The similarities were both hysterical and heart-breaking, but before I get there, I need to set the record straight because it’s not fair to this poor woman to be linked to my monster of an ex in a way that she shouldn’t be.